It’s not uncommon for seniors to resist assistance with daily tasks, as they may value their independence and fear losing control. However, this resistance can also stem from physical limitations, cognitive decline, or emotional factors like frustration or embarrassment.
It’s important to approach the situation with patience, empathy, and respect for their feelings.
How to Handle It
Acknowledge their feelings
Validate their desire for independence by acknowledging their feelings and offering support in a way that feels empowering, rather than taking over.
Offer choices
Give them some control by offering options for how tasks can be completed, allowing them to feel involved in the decision-making process.
Take small steps
Introduce assistance gradually, starting with less intrusive tasks, and reassure them that your goal is to make their daily life easier, not take away their independence.
Communicate clearly
Have open conversations about why assistance is needed and how it can benefit their health and well-being. Let them know they are not alone in this process.
Remember, it’s about striking a balance between maintaining their independence while ensuring they have the support needed for safety and well-being.
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